“I’ve had enough” Ali Farr told the Stray Ferret after her wedding plans have been left in ruins.

Ali, a community nurse in Knaresborough and Boroughbridge, and her partner, Ben Cross, a paramedic, had planned to hold their wedding reception at the St George Hotel on May 1st.  More than a hundred guests were due to arrive from as far away as Singapore and Australia. Then lockdown struck and the date was cancelled.

So Ali and Ben re-arranged the whole thing -on the anniversary of day they got together 12 years ago, New Years Eve.  It meant moving everything, it was more expensive and they had to sacrifice the wedding ceremony at St John’s Church. Then a few days ago, Ali  heard the St George had gone into administration:

“I’ve had no correspondence from anybody. We’ve already paid £5,000 – most on credit cards but I think the £800 deposit will be lost because we booked it on a debit card two years ago.

“My dress is at the seamstress, I’ve got the bridesmaid’s dresses, the boy’s suits, I’ve paid a lot of money for the entertainment, the photographer, the videographer and a car.

“I’ve had enough. You don’t know what’s going to happen do you? It’s just tough.”

Throughout the crisis Ali and Ben have been working on the front line of healthcare.

“I am a nurse, Ben’s a paramedic, we’ve got a little girl. We’ve worked throughout the crisis as key workers.

My would-be guests have been lovely – on May 1st they made a video for us. On the day we had a cake to cut, we gave each other a present on the morning and my little girl threw some petals around – she was supposed to be our flower girl. “

Ali and Ben’s guests held a zoom celebration for them to cheer them up

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The government has cancelled all weddings, including those across the Harrogate district, to tackle coronavirus.

For existing bookings that are postponed or cancelled, revised wedding dates will be accepted from September 1, 2020.

New bookings can now only be made from January 1, 2021.

In three weeks time, the government will review the decision to suspend weddings and the service will contact all affected couples.

Those with the soonest ceremonies will be given priority.

North Yorkshire County Councillor Greg White, the Executive Member for Customer Engagement, said:

“We realise people will be disappointed at having to postpone their wedding plans. We are also sure that they and their guests will understand just how important it is for all of us to heed the directive to stay at home as we all play our part in tackling the Covid-19 outbreak.”

The registration service has also suspended appointments to register births and asked residents to register deaths over the phone.

It’s unclear when appointments to register births will resume but residents can still make a claim for child benefit or universal credit.

Those wishing to register a death must do so over the telephone as offices will be shut to personal callers.

When doctors have sent the medical certificate of cause of death by email, they can make a telephone appointment.

Following the call, forms for the undertaker and a formal death certificate will be sent in the post.

Those who have a paper copy of the medical certificate from the doctor can drop the envelope through a letterbox at one of the offices or by email.