Stray Ferret Christmas Appeal 2023: ‘They make you smile despite what they’re dealing with’

This year’s Stray Ferret Christmas Appeal is to raise £30,000 for a much-needed minibus for Dementia Forward in the Harrogate district.

It is kindly sponsored by Vida Healthcare.

Please give generously to support local people and their families living with dementia. Let’s not forget who needs our help this Christmas.

Today, Flora spoke to one of the charity’s volunteer bus drivers.


“Retirement came with a plan, but it was clear to me I needed to find a different balance.”

Following a 42-year career in logistics, Robert Milton felt it was time to give something back to his community.

Now a year into his role at Dementia Forward, Robert wakes up every Monday and looks forward to the day ahead, knowing he will drive those living with dementia to a place of care and support.

He said:

“The people here are just lovely – they put their hearts and souls into what they do.”

Every week, Robert picks people up in Harrogate and Ripon to ensure they get to the hub safely, while also giving their carers some much needed respite. It offers anyone living with dementia the opportunity to access the support they so urgently need no matter their situation.

After dropping people off, he has a cup of tea and a chat with them. He joins them in playing board games and competing in quizzes he makes people living with a silent disease feel heard.

But, Robert is so much more than a driver at Dementia Forward.

“The role was described as ‘just driving’ but it becomes far more than that. The people you drive become acquaintances friends.

“They come here, have a ball, and I drive get to drive them home again. I just look forward to it every week.

“They just have a way of making you smile despite what they’re dealing with.”

Members of The Hub Club.

The minibus is also used to take people out on day trips and to social events. Some people venture to the Yorkshire coast, to play golf, to art galleries, on walking adventures and even just to cafés.

It combats the isolation so many people sadly feel when living with dementia.

Robert added:

“It’s not all one pace – that’s where Dementia Forward fits in and it’s given me an idea of the different personalities you can meet.

“Some of these people don’t realise what they’re dealing with, but the people around them – carers and families – watch it first hand.”

Without Dementia Forward’s minibus service, many people living with dementia in the Harrogate district could not access the vital care and support the charity offers.

It provides a lifeline for those living with the disease and the people around them.

However, hundreds of families across the district are losing their loved ones to dementia every day that’s why we need your help this Christmas.

Every donation to our campaign will go directly to Dementia Forward, helping us hit our £30,000 target to buy the charity a new minibus and bettering the lives of those living with dementia and the people around them.

The current bus is old and urgently needs to be replaced. Dementia Forward would seriously struggle to afford a new one, which is why they need your help to keep this vital service going. Without it, many people living with dementia wouldn’t be able to access the help and support they need. 

Click here to donate whatever you can you never know when you, your family or your friend may need Dementia Forward’s help too.

Thank you.

The NHS found that 1 in 11 people over the age of 65 in the UK are living with dementia. For those who need urgent help or have a dementia-related enquiry, call 0330 057 8592 to speak to a helpline adviser.

Starbeck pub opens as warm space this winter

A Starbeck pub is inviting people to use it as a free place of warmth this winter.

The Prince of Wales, on Starbeck High Street, launched its “warmth without worry” initiative last year following the rising costs of utility bills and is hoping to keep people warm again this year.

Landlady Alison Griffiths told the Stray Ferret “inflation has caused everything to go up – I just hope to save some people money”.

She added:

“It’s for anyone – not just those living in Starbeck – that are perhaps at home on their own.

“They don’t have to buy a drink in the pub, they can just come in and keep warm.

“They can also bring a flask and have tea and coffee for free here.”

Ms Griffiths also said the initiative, which began last week, will continue “until the weather warms up”.

People don’t have to declare they’re using the service, she added, but instead can just take a seat, chat and enjoy themselves for as long as they like.

In a social media post, the Prince of Wales pub said:

“Don’t sit in the cold…we all have the right to warmth without worry.”

The pub is open every day from 11am – 11pm.


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Yemi’s Food Stories: Behind the scenes at Harrogate’s Fodder

When I started the food column, one of the first places I wanted to write about was Fodder, because it’s a place I regularly go to for fresh produce.

Fodder stands for everything the Yorkshire Agricultural Society believes in – a passion for Yorkshire, its farmers and local producers. It is also the only farm shop café of its kind in the UK where 100% of their profit goes back to YAS.

It’s as much a Harrogate icon as any.

Nestled within the Great Yorkshire Showground, there isn’t a more fitting tribute to the county’s farmers than a place that champions and sells their produce.

I first met Mehdi Boukemach, the head chef, at the Great Yorkshire Show, so I was delighted to spend some time behind the scenes with him in the kitchen. He and his truly diverse team includes chefs from the UK, Brazil, Poland, Italy, France and South Africa.

This diverse team means you get the tastes of different cultures peeking through the Yorkshire ingredients. Mehdi describes his food as “inspired by different cuisines using Yorkshire ingredients”.

Arancini and salads

The arancini is made from pearl barley and textured with a range of mushrooms including portobello, forest and shimeji, paired with a creamy Ribblesdale goat’s cheese. This is served with a spiced tomato sauce with a touch of local honey for a well-rounded flavour.

One of the more popular dishes is quiche. Mehdi’s serves it with a mooli and carrot salad with a touch of oyster sauce and a sprinkle of nigella seeds. It was like eating a savoury version of crème brûlée, and I can see why diners have not allowed it to be taken off the menu.

Other salads to accompany dishes include a Middle Eastern-style chick pea salad and fresh leafy salads with a drizzle of French dressing.

One of the staff members inside Fodder’s farm shop.

Burgers, stock and steak

“The Fodder way” is to use whole animals and ensure nothing goes to waste. Stocks are made every day from the bones, which become the base for many dishes and their homemade gravy.

The burgers are made from the brisket and seasoned with Maldon salt and black pepper. Nothing else needs to be added when you are working with high quality produce. The amount of fat in each burger ensures it remains juicy and delicious.

Another popular dish is the open sandwich. I watched the steak sandwich being prepared using perfectly seared bavette steak, topped with creamy Yorkshire blue cheese. It is served with a tomato sauce topped with onion jam and a salad, so you get a balance of sweet, salty, umami and a touch of acidity.

I left the Fodder kitchen with an appreciation for the amazing work that goes into producing the dishes. I saw the team’s love for the produce they use, as well as respect for local farmers and suppliers.

The front of Fodder.

The café and farm shop

The café serves breakfast, lunch and afternoon tea as well as coffee, tea and sweet treats.

The talented team of chefs bakes fresh scones, flapjack and (giant) Yorkshire puddings every morning.

The site also offers Fodder on the Hoof – an original 1950’s Airstream Caravan — serving hot drinks, bacon butties and quick lunches for those on the go.

Along with everything you need for your weekly food shopping, Fodder has a wide range of crafts, gifts, and cards.

In the lead up to Christmas planning, you can order your festive food from turkeys, pigs in blankets and side dishes to desserts and ice cream to be delivered from Fodder.


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The Harrogate beauty queen waving the flag for mental health

Beauty pageants have become somewhat alien to us Brits in recent years, and still come with a lot of stereotypes.

However, one Harrogate woman, who is now in the running to become Miss England, is determined to use her beauty queen status as a means of empowering those who have faced similar struggles to her.

Chloe McEwen — the recently-crowned Miss Yorkshire — was just 16 when she had a mental breakdown.

Although it was never proven, she believes her drink was spiked while on a night-out for her birthday, and attributes the events that followed to that night.

She did not sleep for three days and doctors ended up sectioning her after she began hallucinating and threatening to jump from a window.

She said:

“I went through hell and was diagnosed with a severe bipolar condition.

“I was shifted from one psychiatric hospital to another while doctors tried to get to the bottom of my condition.”

Ms McEwen added her weight “shot up” after living off pizza, chips and sugary treats during her eight-month stint in hospital.

“I peaked at 12 and a half stone and hated my body image.

“I look at the pictures of me from those days and cannot believe it is the same person.”

It was then that she realised she could use her time in hospital to improve both her physical and mental health.

“I realised that I could get myself better by getting fit and modifying my diet.

“I started reading up on the science of fitness and convinced doctors that I was well enough to go home.”

Ms McEwen has spent the last five years rebuilding her life. Now 21 and four stone lighter, she is a qualified personal trainer, model and, of course, beauty queen.

She now leads both group and private fitness classes, and is currently writing her own cookery book to help improve people’s relationship with food.

In addition, she has also become a Sports Traider ambassador – a charity that uses fitness to help young people thrive.

After entering the Miss Yorkshire competition to celebrate her new-found body confidence, Ms McEwen discovered it was “not just all about beauty” as contestants were required to show the impact they had on other people’s lives.

“Beauty pageants have had to modernise like everything else and contestants show they have a purpose.

“For me, that is talking positively about my road to recovery and working with the charity Mind to help other people going through the awful mental health trauma that I suffered.”

Her story remains at the forefront of her Miss England campaign, during which she will continue her advocacy for mental wellbeing in partnership with Mind.

She has also teamed up with The Prom Den – a dress shop in Brighouse – and will wear one of its gowns during the national competition. She added:

“I would have loved to have attended my old school prom after GCSEs, but unfortunately that was when I was still in hospital.

“Girls love dressing up to the nines for a big night of celebration after working so hard on their exams.

“Prom dances are huge at schools in Yorkshire, and it is great to be modelling for such a fantastic brand.”

If triumphant, Chloe will qualify for the international competition, Miss World.


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Bus passenger death prompts visibility concerns on “dark” Harrogate road

The death of a man who had just got off a bus near Harrogate this week has prompted calls for better visibility on the unlit stretch of road.

The unnamed man, who was in his 90s, died after being hit by a vehicle on the A61 Ripon Road between New Park roundabout and Killinghall at about 5.50pm on Monday, November 6.

The man had just alighted at the northbound bus stop on the bridge close to the junction with Knox Mill Lane.

Councillor Monika Slater, a Liberal Democrat who represents Bilton Grange and New Park on North Yorkshire Council, contacted council officers after the incident. She said:

“It is a very dark stretch of road with a speed limit of 40mph and no central reservation. I feel that work could be done to improve the visibility for both drivers and pedestrians in that area.

“North Yorkshire Council need to ensure that bus stops are located in safe places and I have asked them to have a look at what they can do to increase the safety of  bus passengers using that stop.”

The unlit stretch of road where the collision occurred.

Cllr Slater received a response saying the council’s road safety team was working with North Yorkshire Police “to fully assess the incident and identify the cause”.

The council officer replied:

“This includes an assessment of the road condition, signs, lines and lighting in the area. Once the report is completed it goes to the North Yorkshire Council executive to review and this would include, if appropriate, any recommendations to alter any of the signs, lines, lighting, etc.

“This is not a quick process as the investigation is very detailed, but we will keep you appraised as this is progressed.”


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Bettys unveils Christmas window display in Harrogate

Hundreds of people gathered outside Bettys in Harrogate today to watch the tearoom unveil its fifth annual Christmas window display.

Carol singers, minced pies and hot chocolate added to the festive atmosphere as the excitement mounted.

Staff worked through the night to finalise the display, which features numerous presents. Then finally at 5.30pm this afternoon, a countdown began and the fruits of the staff’s work became apparent.

The Parliament Street tearoom is regarded as Bettys’ flagship store and marks the start of Christmas for the town’s most famous brand.

You can see a video of the big reveal on the Stray Ferret’s social media channels.

Crowds gathered on Parliament Street.


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New cocktail bar opens tonight in Harrogate town centre

Harrogate‘s nightlife will offer even more choice from tonight, with the official launch of a new cocktail bar.

Locus Bar, on Cheltenham Crescent, is the brainchild of Flavia Milovi, who will run it with the help of bar manager Natasha Murray. The launch event starts at 6pm and everyone is welcome.

 

Photo of a cocktail at Locus Bar in Harrogate.

Natasha said:

“We want to give people a reason to get out of their homes and come to a nice, welcoming place that feels just as comfortable, but more stylish.

“We’re strong on wines and cocktails, with a range not just of the classics, but also of some that guests might not have tried before, like the Locus 21 and the Lost in Locus.

“In the future, we have plans to offer meat and cheese platters, live music and even singles nights, and we also have a private function room for hire.”

Photo of a pink neon sign that says 'Locus Bar', at Locus Bar in Harrogate.Locus Bar, which is in premises formerly occupied by Bijou & Wild, is named after a Leeds establishment owned by Flavia’s business partner, Gerti Masllavica, but this is Flavia’s first foray into Harrogate’s social scene. She said:

“We have a lot of friends here, and the people are nice. Harrogate really fits our style of venue, so I very much hope people will come along from 6pm tonight and see what we have to offer.”


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Key witness appeal following sex assault in Harrogate public toilet

North Yorkshire Police today issued an appeal to find a key witness follow a sexual assault in Harrogate.

The incident, which happened in the Victoria Shopping Centre toilets, took place on September 17.

A man and a woman entered a cubicle together and police believe the man in the image may hold important information.

The force said in a statement:

“The suspect in the case has been identified and officers want to stress that the man they want to trace is not a suspect, but a witness who may be able to provide vital information.

“A man and a woman went into public toilets in Victoria Shopping Centre in Harrogate, opposite the railway station.

“They were both followed into the toilet by the man in the image below. The man appears visibly surprised to see both the man and woman enter the male toilet together and may remember the incident.”

The statement added officers hope the man reads the appeal and gets in touch because he “may be able to provide key information that could assist their investigation”.

The police added:

“If you believe that you are the man, or you also saw a man and woman in the male toilets that day, please get in touch.

“Anyone with any information is asked to email lorraine.whipp@northyorkshire.police.uk or call 101, press option 2 and ask for Lorraine Whipp.”

Quote reference number 12230176639 when passing on information,

If you wish to remain anonymous, you can call Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.


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Remembrance Day: A guide to services in the Harrogate district

Remembrance services will take place across the Harrogate district to honour the fallen.

We’ve collated a list of the services across the district that are being held.

You can email contact@thestrayferret.co.uk if you know of others to add.

Ripon

Thursday, November 9.

Ripon Community Poppy Project will hold a concert of remembrance at Ripon Cathedral.

Ripon City Band, The Dishforth Military Wives Choir and Brackenfield School will all perform.

The event will begin at 7pm and tickets cost £13.50.

Sunday, November 12.

A service will be held in Ripon Spa Gardens from 10.45am. It will include two minutes’ silence and the laying of wreaths, followed by the usual parade.

A civic service of remembrance will then be held in Ripon Cathedral from 11.40am – 1pm.

The Right Reverend Anna Eltringham, Bishop of Ripon, will lead the service.

Harrogate

St Peter’s Church — Friday, November 10

The Festival of Remembrance will be held at St Peter’s Church, on Cambridge Road, as part of the Cenotaph Centenary.

The Harrogate Band and The Fishers Singers will perform at the event, which will be led by Harry Satloka of Harrogate’s Free Walking Tours.

There will also be presentations and poetry, as well as a remembrance service.

Tickets cost £10 and all proceeds will go to the Royal British Legion.

It begins at 8pm.

St Wilfrid’s Church — Saturday, November 11

A two-minute silence will held be at 11am at St Wilfrid’s Church on Duchy Road.

This will be followed by a talk on the men named on the church’s WWI memorials, as well as an exhibition in their honour which is on display.

Email bookings@stwilfrid.org to reserve a place.

Town centre – Sunday, November 12

The annual Harrogate Remembrance Day parade and service will be held at the cenotaph war memorial.

People can arrive from 10am. The service will begin at around 10.50am, followed by the two-minute silence at 11am.

After that, the Reveille and wreath laying will commence.

The Kohima Epitaph will be read before the march-past begins.

St Peter’s Church — Sunday, November 12

A Remembrance service with a choir will be held at St Peter’s Church, on Cambridge Road, just after the cenotaph service.

It will begin at approximately 11.15am.

Starbeck – Sunday, November 12

A two-minute silence will be observed at 11am at the war memorial on Starbeck High Street. Wreaths will be laid.

Later, at 3pm, the Starbeck Remembrance Ceremony will take place at the cenotaph on Starbeck High Street.

It will be led by the Harrogate branch of the Royal British Legion, with a parade by local uniformed organisations.

Harrogate and Knaresborough MP Andrew Jones will attend the service, and readings will be led by the church and pupils of Starbeck Primary Academy.

Stonefall Commonwealth War Graves Cemetery – Sunday, November 12

A service starting at 1pm will include prayers, music from the Harrogate Band, a short talk by Reverend David Hoskins and a two-minute silence. Also, wreaths will be laid by community leaders and representatives of British and allied forces, and students from Ashville College and Harrogate’s Army Foundation College will lay flowers on each grave.

West Park Church — Sunday, November 12

A service will be held at the church, including an act of remembrance, from 10.30am.

It will be led by Reverend David Hughes.

Another service will be held at 3.30pm to mark the end of the More Than a Name on a Memorial exhibition.

Knaresborough

Sunday, November 12

The commemorations will begin with a service at St John’s Church from 9.30am.

A parade from the church to the war memorial in the castle grounds will follow.

There will be a two-minute silence at 11am, followed by a service of remembrance at the memorial.

Nidderdale and Pateley Bridge

Saturday, November 11.

The annual Armistice Day service and parade takes place at the war memorial from 10am.  Those attending will include a representative of the lord-lieutenant’s office, a platoon of troops from the Army Foundation College in Harrogate, local dignitaries and community organisations and schools etc.

It is organised by the Nidderdale branch of the Royal British Legion and The Church in The Dale.

Sunday, November 12
10am Joint Service of Remembrance at Holy Trinity, Dacre Banks with a collection for the Royal British Legion.

11am Act of Remembrance at Summerbridge War Memorial, followed by refreshments at Summerbridge Methodist Church.

2pm Remembrance Concert and Service at Darley Memorial Hall

6pm The Royal British Legion Service of Remembrance at St Mary the Virgin, Greenhow Hill. Led by the Reverend Darryl Hall, there will be a two-minute silence, a sermon by Jane Spooner and music from Nidd Chorale.

Boroughbridge

Sunday, November 12.

A remembrance service and parade will be held at St James’s Church in Boroughbridge.

It will begin at 10am.

Masham

Friday, November 10. 

A remembrance service will be held for locals and pupils of Masham School at St Mary’s Church from 10.45am.


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Harrogate prepares for milestone Remembrance Day service

Large crowds are expected in Harrogate town centre on Sunday for the annual Remembrance Day service and parade.

The event is always a major occasion, with road closures and large crowds gathering around the war memorial to pay their respects and observe a two-minute silence.

But this year’s activities will be especially poignant as it coincides with the 100th anniversary of the town’s war memorial, which was unveiled by Henry Lascelles, the 6th Earl of Harewood, on September 1, 1923.

It cost £12,000 and contains the names of 1,163 men and women who died in two world wars.

Sunday also marks the end of the Cenotaph Centenary — a programme of events since the start of September commemorating the centenary.

You Must Remember This, which is being held tonight at the West Park United Reformed Church, will feature military-themed music by three choirs.

Attention will then turn to Sunday’s Remembrance Day activities.

Service at the war memorial

Crowds are invited to gather at the war memorial from 10am.

The service will commence at 10.50am, followed by the two-minute silence at 11am.

Wreaths will be laid, the Kohima epitaph will be read the and the reveille will play.

The memorial was built in 1923.

Road closures

North Yorkshire Council has said the following roads will be closed on Sunday from 8:30am to 1pm to facilitate the parade and service:

Cheltenham Crescent, Oxford Street, Union Street, Parliament Street, Albert Street, Prospect Place, James Street, John Street, Princes Street, Cambridge Crescent, and Cambridge Road.

Only one lane will be open on West Park during the parade.

A full list of services across the district is available here.


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